Hollywood’s stereotype of estate planning usually features assorted nieces, nephews and cousins gathered in the drawing room of a 100-year-old mansion greedily waiting to hear what an eccentric rich relative left them.

By the time the scene is over, no one is happy—and that part, at least, has some veracity.

Every year, thousands of people fight over money after someone has died, especially if that person did a poor job of planning what would happen with their assets.

And, despite the stereotype, families don’t have to be rich to get in an uproar over who inherits what. But unfortunately, the average person doesn’t show the same kind of concern about estate planning that the rich do—and that’s a mistake.

People often think, “Well, I’m married so everything will just pass along to my wife or my kids.” But it doesn’t always work that way. For example, in some states your brothers and sisters could possibly inherit part of your estate, even if that wasn’t your intent.

That’s why everyone—regardless of how small their wealth—should do at least some estate planning. Some things to consider include:

 

There are online services that can prepare a will, but that may not be the best route. Laws and rules are always changing, so it’s better to consult with a professional who understands all the nuances.

Ernie Burns, president and chief executive officer of Burns Estate Planning and Wealth Advisors, has more than 25 years of experience in retirement income planning.