These pleas for "civility" of discourse are mere gaslighting. I don't care how polite, friendly and calm you are when you do it but lying is uncivil. Cheating is uncivil. Vandalizing our public institutions, the law and our Constitutuion is uncivil. Deliberately harming other people to fulfill dimwit racist aspirations is uncivil. A higher level of etiquette with which one does these things actually makes them much much worse.
How about we push for civility of action first?